Recently, I've been accused of not being a proper Domme because I'm "too nice". It's not the first time I've heard this, either. I felt it was time I cleared the air.
Understand this: I do not, nor will I ever, inflict My wrath on anyone without their explicit consent.
Does that mean that I'm not capable of brutality?
Does that mean that I'm not the most sadistic bitch you'll ever meet in your life?
Hell no. It means that I recognize submission cannot be taken. It must be willingly given.
What it does mean is that until I have received said explicit consent, I will keep My comments mostly tame.
On the flipside of that, submitting to Me also does not mean that you will be subjected to that type of treatment. Yes, I enjoy humiliation, among other things, but that does not mean it is a part of every D/s relationship I enter into. If you don't enjoy it, I will not force it upon you.
My list of kinks and turn-ons is extensive. As long as W/we have some kinks in common, W/we're good. (Of course, there are other factors that will determine if W/we are a match for each other.)
Now, with that being said, I'd also like to add that there is no right or wrong way to be a Domme. If you're a Woman, Dominant, and feel pleasure when enacting said Dominance , you've got the primary requirements covered.
Some Dommes are nurturing and loving, while others are cruel and mean... Hell, some are both... at the same time (Talk about a mind fuck!) Some are brats, some are angels... etc. etc. As long as you are being your genuine self, you are doing it right.
Added note for those reading this that think you can just wake up one morning and "become a Domme"... it's really not that simple. You either are, or you aren't, and much learning, personal development and research needs to happen on your part BEFORE you can safely Dominate a submissive in any way, shape or form without potentially causing devastating harm. And if you're thinking of getting into being a Domme to make a quick buck, don't bother because it also doesn't work that way.
TL;DR: I never bite... without consent.